Im a 66 yr old female. I used to race a bit but no longer. I enjoy riding with friends and doing zwift plus a bit of running. Id love to chat with other older women abt what zwift sessions u enjoy doing and how u enjoy using zwift.
You might try joining some of the bigger group rides and joining their Discord channels. Some of the lower W/Kg rides have huge ridership and a lot of conversation. In the Zwift Event page you can see how many people are signed up for a particular ride and look for Discord channels, FB or Strava clubs. Jump on rides with big ridership and throw your question out there looking for interested parties. I am sure you can find some like-minded like-oriented people.
you can always connect with the Herd, amazing group of supportive riders.